Well done on getting engaged! You're now probably raring to get started on the planning. When you first sit down to brainstorm your wedding with a notebook in hand and a near-overwhelming sense of excitement you're going to want to write down a million and one infeasible thoughts (no, you probably can't book Katy Perry to walk you down the aisle). You need to breathe, slow down, and really think - how exactly do you want your day to go? If you follow my steps, I promise you'll figure out...